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Over the past thirty years, I’ve observed thousands upon thousands of parents and educators try to reach extremely challenging kids.
 
Some have tried force in the form of anger, lectures, and threats. They were never successful.
 
Others tried punishment. This always backfired.
 
Many have implemented rather tedious reward systems. Sometimes these worked… for a while.
 
A large number experimented with copious amounts of praise, saying things like, “You are so great!” Most were perplexed by why many of these kids acted worse as a result.
 
Some even tried “Love and Logic.” Misunderstanding our approach, they believed that consequences alone would solve the problem. They were disappointed.
 
Many tried being permissive. They became doormats.
 
True love is the only thing that works.
 
True love is the only lasting motivator.
 
At our annual Love and Logic Parent and Educator Retreat, you’ll hear a powerful lineup of world-class speakers describe practical strategies for providing authentic love to the most challenging kids.
 
You’ll hear why this means we need to provide:
 
   the safety of having consistent limits.
   someone who believes in them when they don’t believe in themselves.
   authority figures who are powerful in soft-spoken, gentle, and positive ways.
   a healthy sense of control, feelings of belonging, and success experiences leading to real self-esteem.
   parents and teachers who take great care of themselves so they can consistently demonstrate patience and dignity.
   caring eye-contact, smiles, and touch.
   opportunities to make mistakes, to experience reasonable consequences, and to see that we continue to love them unconditionally.
 
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