The grief of losing a pet is something only a pet owner can truly understand. Animal companions share so much of our life, even if they don't talk. Losing a pet can be unexpected or it could come in the form of terminal illness. It might happen with death or divorce. Regardless of the way in which you lose your pet, the loss is devastating. Only time heals the pain of loss, but there are some things you can do to help the grief process.

Grieve. Grieving a pet is natural. The important thing is to not hold it in. It is acceptable to take a day or two off of work to help yourself greive. Though four-legged, this is a death of a family member that you are dealing with.
 
Memorialize. Life is short, and some things are worth making some extra time for. Give your pet some extra devotion in it's last weeks if you have that option. Once your pet has passed away, memorialize the pet. This will help all family members to feel like the pet remains part of the family – especially children. You can write about what you love and miss about your pet, make a scrapbook, create Christmas tree ornaments or other memorials of your pet. Many families decide to cremate the ashes of their pet and keep the ashes in the home. This is up to you.
 
Give yourself time. When faced with the loss of a furry companion, we not only miss the love and affection of our beloved friend, we also miss the comfort that only a pet can provide. This makes many rush right out and try to heal their wounds (or their child's wounds) with a new pet. It's best to give yourself some space; allow yourself and your family to grieve the loss and avoid attempting to replace the pet. This new pet might become a scapegoat for the emotions of grief. Experts recommend a 3-6 month minimum time for new pets, depending on how well you've navigated the grief cycle.
 
 Remember that the loss of your pet can happen suddenly. The most important advice is to make the most of each day with your pet, with lots of playing, petting, and getting cozy. As tiring as your pet's constant need for attention may seem now, you may find yourself missing it one day. 

Before you go to a pet store or a local breeder for a special type of dog, consider adopting from your local animal shelter. These homeless critters come in a variety of animal types, breeds, and ages. In fact, your local animal shelter likely has a better selection of animals than anywhere else. Most areas have several shelters to visit – a sad reality of the misfortune that befalls many animals. Cats, kittens, dogs, puppies and sometimes even rabbits, hamsters, gerbils and other small pets can all be found in animal shelters. You are almost sure to find someone that captures your heart.

The animal shelter is your top source for a new pet. They have information concerning each pet in their facility and are vested in ensuring that the pet and owner are a good match with one another. While they might look like a ragtag lot, pets at animal shelters are all screened for good health and behavior. They will address any concerns with you and most shelters work with troubled pets before adopting them out. Most shelters will even help you with spaying and neutering.

When you rescue a homeless animal you are giving it a new lease on life. As with any new pet ownership, be sure to budget the expenses involved in creating a new space, buyingg food, getting essential care items, and the possibility of additional vaccinations that might be required. You should also plan some extra time to spend with your pet. Likely, you won't want to adopt a pet and leave it home alone the very next day. Adopting a pet is a richly rewarding experience. With a little time, care and patience, you can be sure that it is a smooth process.

The next time you are heading out for the day, or maybe even the night, consider taking your dog. More and more places are becoming dog friendly. You probably won't be able to sit down at a restaurant with your dog, but you may be surprised to discover that your favorite bar, store, or coffee shop allows pets.

This trend will vary from location to location, but you can still take Rover along on your next excursion. Go for a city walk to allow him or her to greet new people if the animal is a social critter. Check out doggie parks, or go for a hike on nearby trails.  If you'd like to run some errands and bring along some four-legged company here are a few things to consider:

Doggie seatbelts. Yes, they make them, and are a great way to restrain your pet and keep it from sustaining serious injuries in the case of an unfortunate incident. Its also a good way to keep him from jumping out of the window.

Don't leave them in the car. Not even in cool weather. A cracked window doesn't do that much to keep an automobile cool. A hot car is like an oven, with temperatures that can rise by a startling 34 degrees per minute! People have been known to break windows to retrieve dogs in danger from hot cars, and if they don't do it the Humane Society most assuredly will. 

Tether. If you take your pet into town, be prepared to tie him or her up if you are going to be going into a store. Be sure to securely fasten the tether and ensure it is short enough that your pet cannot run into traffic. You should not leave pets alone in a crowd if they have any issues with any type of people. Give your pet gentle reassurances and be sure to keep your eyes on your pet when you go into the store.
 
There are plenty of ways to include your beloved furry creature into your life. Many dog owners enjoy an active healthy lifestyle with their dogs by their side. Talk to your favorite establishments about allowing dogs - you might be surprised to find that they do – or you may inspire them to start allowing dogs!

If you have ever traveled away from home and left your pet behind you know it can be a nerve wracking experience. Determining what to do with your pet while you are gone is equally stressful, as there are many options – all with their own pros and cons. The decision will ultimately come down to what works best for your pet and what you feel most comfortable with; armed with the right information you are better able to make that decision.
 
Kennel. Taking your pet to a kennel means that someone will be with him more often, and there is likely easy access to a veterinarian in the unfortunate event that your pet gets ill or injured. It is also the most secure option for you, as you will not have liability concerns with your pet, nor will you need to be concerned about someone in your house without you there. The downside is that kennel's require additional vaccinations. Your pet might feel additional stress at being in a different location and not having their beloved human around. Usually, the boarding facility is adept at dealing with these issues and will take extra steps to dote on your pet while you are away. 

Friends.
Having a friend come over to watch the pet or paying a neighborhood kid to take care of kitty while you are gone is the most affordable method, and is probably fine if you are gone for a night or two. The problems you might run into are the experience level of the person taking care of your pet. Dogs, for example, can get extra aggressive when you aren't home – would the neighborhood kid be able to handle that? There are some additional liability concerns as well. If your friend forgets to lock the door behind them and things go missing, you have little recourse. Despite this, the benefits of leaving pets at home are numerous. Pets are happier and experience less stress at home, diet and exercise routines are uninterrupted, and a pet's exposure to illness is minimized.

Professional Sitter. A professional pet sitter has the experience and qualifications necessary to appropriately care for companion animals. There are a variety of accreditation programs available. Professional education and training in the care of companion animals include topics such as health and nutrition, canine and feline behavior, separation anxiety and pet loss. Professional Pet sitters might also be bonded and have liability insurance. These policies fully cover pets and property and provide pet owners peace of mind while they are away. Professional pet sitting companies often screen their employees, allaying any security concerns. While they cost more than the neighborhood kids, the payoff could greatly benefit your pet, particularly in an emergency.
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Reasons Not to Get a Pet
Baby Animals are Cute
Animal companions are a welcome addition to any family, and as cuddly as a kitten, puppy, or bunny may be, they require a lot more than affection as the years go by. Pet ownership requires a lot of patience, effort, and money.

Christmas / Birthday Gift
When you surprise a friend or child with an animal for a gift, you should be positive that the person is ready, able, and willing to take on the responsibility of feeding, training, and meeting the needs of an animal companion. Kids in particular receive pets as gifts that they are not ready for. If you want to get a pet for your child, start with something simple – like goldfish.
 
Death of a Beloved Pet
When a pet dies, it's tempting to run out and fill the void right away with a new pet. However, you'll soon be disappointed to realize that your new pet is not the same as your deceased pet, and you may find yourself neglecting your new pet. Give yourself the time and space to heal from your loss before opening your home and heart to a new animal companion.



Choosing the Right Pet Food
Today there is a wide variety of food to choose from and a lot of concern about food safety. With multiple pet food recalls occurring in recent history, it can be daunting to make the right choice in pet foods. Here are a few tips to get you started:

Talk to your veterinarian. Vets know pets, so its important to check in with your pet doctor about the ideal food for your animal. They will likely be up to date on food safety issues, and can recommend trusted brands.

Consider the age and weight of your pet. Food for cats and dogs come specifically formulated for kittens and puppies, senior pets, and even overweight animals.  

Pet's choice. Some animals prefer wet food to dry food, and vice versa. Consult with your veterinarian regarding this, as there may be reasons (such as dental care) for you to opt for one over the other.  Often a mixture of the two is ideal. 

With some careful planning and the recommendation of your pet's veterinarian, you can be sure to select the right pet food for your furry friend. 



Heroic Pets
Animal companions are incredibly heroic when it comes to their beloved humans. Trained dogs protect us from bombs and toxic chemicals and help to find missing or lost children among other things. Pet dogs are notoriously a great security system, sensing dangers that not the human eye nor ear, nor nose can sense.  There are countless of heartwarming stories of dogs protecting children by rescuing them when they fall into water or by keeping dangerous animals and people away.
 
Even cats are heroic. They might make a strange meowing sound to alert you about a fire or a dangerous chemical smell, or make ferocious noises about an impending intruder or dangerous animal nearby. Cats can surprise you with their protective nature – and they often forget how small they are when protecting their people.
 
It is mysterious what drives pets to be so protective of us, and sometimes miraculous to think about how they sense danger before we do, or are able to rescue a family member before we are. Pets truly are our angels when we need them the most.

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